I'm going to wash my hands of this issue.
I'm just going to take a small bit of comfort in the fact that N.drew is gone and deservedly so. No injustice there.
I walk away disappointed and confused in that N.drew's abhorrent behavior is still being excused away. The most offensive point is that, again, it belittles all of the other people that were her targets. Again, not fair. Not right.
I'm going to take the privately given advice of another wise poster. I will pity N.drew. Maybe she was so deep in her mental illness that she just couldn't help being a nasty old crone. Fine. That just cements my opinion that she had no business participating in a public discussion forum.
Maybe I was a little too aggressive in my attempts to make her defenders admit that she acted in the wrong. I was snide and snarky. My aim is not to make enemies. I fear I have done so, with much regret.
My biggest regret is that I let something so trivial and insignificant affect my life. A lot of emotion spent over an internet disussion board. I shouldn't let myself get worked up over petty shit like this.
I think my "Friday Whisk(e)y" thread needs some attention. On to more light-hearted things.
I will apologize to james_woods for the "breastfeeding" comments. They border on name-calling and were over the top. I'm sorry.